How Do You Get A Girl?

How Do You Get A Girl? - I am going to give you all the information and tips on how to get a girlfriend so that you can make that happen. Having a girlfriend makes everything in your life more fun. You’ve got someone to share experiences with, connect with, and someone to care about you.

If you don’t have a girlfriend already though, it can be challenging. Under later are four reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend, and what you can do to get a girl to like you today.

How to Get a Girlfriend
A friend of mine asked me my opinion on how to get a girlfriend the other day, and as I’m giving him my advice, I thought this might interest you as well.

Some guys want to get a girlfriend, for whatever reason…

Maybe you’re just looking to have steady company, or you’d like regular intimacy with a girl that’s more than just a friend with benefits

Maybe you want to find a deeper emotional connection, or you want to have somebody to snuggle up with over the winter

Maybe you want to take a break from “the game”, or maybe you want to get married and have kids?

Whatever the motives, here’s how to get a girlfriend, in 5 steps… and while this may contrast with advice in other articles on how to seduce women quickly, it actually doesn’t differ that much… you’ll see.

Get a Relationship, Don’t Look for a Relationship! If You want Get a Girl.
If you do, it will make you needy with every girl you talk to.

If you want her to be with you, and only you, forever and ever and all that other Disney propaganda, she will pick up on the needy vibe in a heartbeat. And if you try to “get her” for a relationship before she signals that she might be open to that idea… you’re toast.

In nature, it’s the female’s role to try and get the most attractive guy to commit to her. This is because, as we talked about in “What Women Want,” women unconsciously class men they’re interested in romantically in two groups – the LOVERS and the PROVIDERS:

• Often women will have a hot affair with a guy who might not make the perfect daddy, but who has a lot of traits that she finds sexually very attractive. He is the ideal LOVER, and women often chase after this kind of guy and try to MAKE him into a provider.
• At the same time, there is another type of man who might not have the same sex appeal, but who makes up for it with better qualities as a father and breadwinner. This type of guy is usually chasing after HER… and even if he does get her, she will usually hold all the power in the relationship.

Instead, Look for Dates!
Even if you want to find the one girl that’s right for you, chances are she won’t be the first one you go out with. You may have to date several people to find one who’d really be a great match.

And if you have several flings, one of them is very likely to turn into a relationship… if you simply allow it to!

These flings will also up your confidence and hence your game… they will make you go from a scarcity mentality to an abundance mentality, and change how you act around women. This will also make you more attractive... because you ARE the lover now… by definition.

Which triggers girls to chase YOU.

Also, while you’re still looking for the right girlfriend, you won’t be lonely, sexually desperate or needy… so the wait is EASY… it might even be fun!

Don’t Commit Until She’s Committed. Its a way for how do you get a girl!
As long as you’re seeing her only occasionally and she’s not fully committed to you yet - don’t you DARE stop dating other girls!

Don’t feel guilty about it either… why should you offer a girl something she isn’t offering you?

A female friend of mine went overseas and asked her boyfriend: "Are we going to be dating other people?" He said: "Well, you can, but I won’t." She just said: "Oh, cool"… went ahead and dated other people.

Don’t Strive for a “Balance of Power”
Unfortunately, in the early stages of love, the equilibrium is very unstable… and most guys who think they are in a “balanced” relationship are actually in a submissive role… even if only ever so slightly.

The reason is what we talked about above – you are, by definition, either the lover… or the provider. If you are the former, you will have a slight upper hand in the situation… and if you’re the latter, she will be slightly more dominant.

It’s just the way of nature… one of the two people in a relationship usually feels more strongly, and chases a bit more. If you would like to know more about this process, I highly recommend the book “The Passion Trap”, by Dean C. Delis.

Yes, it’s annoying… I used to get upset about it too.

Fall in Love, Don’t Settle for Less
Personally, I would only ever commit to a girl when I’m in love with her.

But falling in love is something that sometimes happens and sometimes it doesn’t… we don’t have much control over our infatuation, so it’s nothing I could develop techniques for.

Here’s the good news though - keep dating girls you’re attracted to, and sooner or later the right one will be among them.

What’s more: this way, you will already be dating a girl once you start developing feelings for her – so you will never find yourself in the unpleasant position of having to chase women you have fallen for and who consider you a friend.

It is virtually guaranteed that your emotions will compel you to make every single mistake in the book in this case… and ruin all your chances of ever getting with this girl, ending up in the dreaded “just friends” No Man’s Land you never want to end up in.

This is by no means a cynical perspective… I have enjoyed several exclusive romantic relationships with amazing girls, and I think that falling in love is amazing… so long as it’s mutual!

It’s okay to have a heart your girl.

The thing is only – I met most of these girls because I had an active dating life, and not by hoping that the right one would somehow magically fall into my lap, or knock at my door.

It is always a good idea to be a bit more proactive.

Let’s take these apart, one at a time, and apply them to your situation. Why don’t you have a girlfriend?

You don’t meet enough girls – especially in the right settings which are relaxed and friendly.

Meeting girls through friends, at social events, or other places where you have a common interest is the best way to meet potential girlfriends. You’d be surprised, but a large number of attractive, eligible girls don’t even go to bars and clubs. It’s a good idea to plan to socialize two to three nights per week at least – and I don’t mean just catching up with the same old people. You want to be mixing it up as much as possible.

Gain more confidence and know how to get a girl you want.

You don’t need to be Superman.
Let’s face it. The standard to get a girl is not that high. You don’t need to be a superhero or anything, even though it might feel like that to you right now. Don’t beat yourself up. Don’t dwell on your imperfections. None of us are perfect, and we’ve all got stuff we’re working on.

The four most important things that you need to know how to be boyfriend material:
(1) you are happy, optimistic and vibrant,
(2) you’ve got goals and a vision for your life,
(3) you are fit, in shape, and healthy,
(4) you are social and have great friends.

You aren’t social enough in general or are fairly introverted.

It’s ridiculous to expect to get a girl, if you barely leave your room.

I meet guys all the time who want a girlfriend, but haven’t ever been on a date and are super shy. Becoming social takes time, especially if you’re more introverted by nature. Being social is a process that everyone can get good at – including you. It takes effort, though, and persistence. You have to take action constantly.

You lack in confidence in how you feel about yourself.

This is a really huge problem.

You’ve got to start believing in yourself, RIGHT NOW. Imagine you have a fan club and you are the President. This is the sort of self-support you absolutely need to have if you want to get a girl interested in you. There will enough people out there who will question you, without you needing to be hard on yourself. Convince yourself that you’re worth dating, and that confidence will attract dates to you better than anything else can.

The secret of how to get a girl is knowing that even an average-looking guy can get a beautiful girlfriend if he learns and tries this simple but effective advice.

Don’t be someone who just reads – be someone who implements, and get a girl now!

By now you’re ready to go beyond the four reasons why you might not be getting the girl, and discover the three questions smart guys know to ask any girl to get them to call back, fall in love, and get into your bed.

Want it for free? It’s only up for a limited time but I can guarantee that if you spend just a few minutes implementing the powerful techniques in this video, you’ll gain more confidence and know How Do You Get a Girl and how to get any girl you want.